Wednesday, September 21, 2005

It’s My Time for Reflection


With so many different feelings and emotions I think it’s important to note that a wonderful thing is about take place in V’s and my life. Today is our 3 year wedding anniversary and I am trying to make it the most memorable yet. For 12 years, we have been everything to each other – experiencing new adventures, taking on challenges, and always supporting one another with life decisions! And, by next week, a baby’s cry will be something new we will share together. I think to myself how things are going to be different. Although I know with everything inside me that we are going to have an absolute blast as the little angel arrives, I can’t help but feel a sense of sadness. Vince and I will no longer be together alone……

We are going to share our love with another being who will be with us constantly on a daily basis. It’s funny because I don’t really know what it’s going to be like. I was having a conversation with a dear friend last night, and was able to compare the situation with the addition of a new puppy. V and I always say how much we love our dogs, Rock & Roll, and how we can't remember what life was like without them around. I can only imagine we are going to feel the same when the baby is born. The feelings will obviously be on a much grander scale but in a very similar way.
I just hope we CAN remember “What life was like before the little guy came around” because even though new beautiful memories will be made….V and I also share amazing moments together that deserve to be remembered a lifetime….after allisn’t that what created the miracle inside me?


Happy Anniversary Babe!

5 comments:

  1. Hey Mar, Just wanted to drop a line and say Hi and wish you both a Happy Anniversary!!!!!! and to let you know I am thinking of you and wishing you all the best on this delivery and may it be quick...LOL....Miss ya tons.....keep us posted.
    Hugs & Kisses...Erika

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  2. Hi guys !!
    Happy anniversary !!!
    What better gift could you have had for the occasion !Enjoy each day and savour it !!Love,Clo

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  3. Happy Anniversary! Where does the time go? Jan and I just celebrated 5 years! Crazy huh?

    It's going to be very hard to give the dogs the attention you did b.c. (before child). Make sure to give lots of pats and bones so they don't get jealous. It can get ugly if they do. Most likely they will be very protective of the little guy.

    Best of luck with everything!

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  4. Hi Mar!!

    Happy Anniversary! I am so excited that your little one will soon arrive. I can't wait to hear his name and see some pictures. Motherhood is wonderful! Enjoy these last few days (hours?) being pregnant - each day feeling your precious child on the inside is a gift...I found it easier to get through the last few days/weeks when I thought that soon this wonderful child would be on the outside and I'd never feel him on the inside again...just like motherhood, pregnancy is a gift, a special bond...I hope thinking of these last few days that way helps you as much as it did me. Can't wait to hear your wonderful news...Ryan and I will be checking your site daily!! Love, Janet, Steve, and Ryan

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  5. Mar!
    Best of luck on delivery, and Happy Anniversary as well!
    wow, it's a big month for you, eh?
    hugs, skoot

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