An Instant Spark with a Perfect Match

Perfect. Complete in all respects.

Tom Cruise said it best when he professed his undying love to actress Renee Zellweger in the movie 'Jerry Maguire'. “You complete me!” are the famous words that took Americans and Canadians by storm! You complete me? Is there such a thing or is it some made up phrase that realistically bears no truth in the actual world? Are we really able to find the perfect match, and if so, how do we know what the term ‘perfect match’ truly means? Some people think opposites attract while others deem most ‘perfect matches’ talk alike or even look alike. Does this hold true? If so, is there studied evidence to demonstrate these assumpations?

Here I stand - a living, breathing witness with proven answers to my own mind boggling question. After a two year experience of witnessing it first hand, I know now the answer lies true, ‘perfect matches’ do exist, and my sister is living proof, here is their story…

Everyone knows her for her quirky sense of humor and sarcastic demeanor. Everyone loves her. He came into her life after several heartaches only to sweep her off her feet and show her that no two people are more alike than they. He’s tall, fair and handsome as they come. With shoulder length blond hair and blue eyes he captured her heart at first glance. She, on the other hand is fairly petite with long curly dark hair and dreamy fluttering eyes. They met 2 years ago, and have remained best friends since their first encounter. While most people find it challenging to understand my sister’s silly sense of humor, the two of them understand each flawlessly. They care for each other in such a way their presence together exudes adoration and compassion. They love their Thursday night Pizza outings; enjoy traveling, shopping, and most of all, doing it all together. They can sit out till the wee hours in the morning and talk non stop about anything under the sun and the moon.

He taught her how to be strong. She taught him how to be open. They both brought so much love into their expedition two yeas ago that it will, no doubt, last them this lifetime and the next. They are carefree and free spirited and have a love for life in every aspect.

They are now engaged and will take their magical relationship onto a new journey bound for a lifetime of experiences. Their wedding is a year and a half away….and I am sure it will be just as beautiful as they are. They are the true epitome of a perfect match and have proven my theory to hold true. There is such a thing. My definition is simple. A Perfect Match is when mutual love is shared between two willing people. It is when respect is their lifelong goal and enjoying an existence together is their mission!